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Jeggings is refer to the Leggings but with a Catchy New Name?

Making fashion decisions; I still look like a teenybopper aspirant as a fashionably mature female (with great fit –between size 2 and 4), when I put on low waist pants and miniskirts. Come to think of it, if we don’t indulge in this teenybopper wannabe stuff, our wardrobe would be filled with baggy, shabby stuffs which those who apparently feel older than us wear.

It seems the fashionable alternatives designed for the matured women had gone into extinct. When all that look at you are unlimited shelf of low waist pants, miniskirts, ruffled-layered blouses, cotton T-shirts (shrunken type) and high heels ( the 6-inches type), it appears as though fashion trends are not ageless. It is not common to stumble on fashion magazines that provide tips on real fashion. I don’t mean those endless talks that border on ‘conceal your imperfection with fashion’. I mean real fashion for a younger or older woman.

I’m sure you’re thinking that the jeggings here refer to the leggings you know, but with a catchy new name? You are right! Looking at mature people like Conan O’Brien being models for these jeggings, it got me thinking seriously that something entirely fresh and new about these stuffs exist.

What jeggings are? These are simply leggings, designed in such a way that they now appear as tight-fitting jeans – this design trend has virtually sent the skinny jean business into extinct. Is this really a good development for the mature fashionistas?

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When I resorted to compare my leggings of the 1980s and the trendy jeggings, I perceived the same style, and shape has been applied in designing both. Moreover, the spandex fabric blends was used for both. It now dawned on me that the sole obvious disparity is the high price tag on the jeggings. Thank goodness I never threw my old pair of leggings, which were only modified in jeggings.

Just like the leggings of three decades ago, the trendy jeggings with an oversized sweatshirt to match, has come to stay. Jeggings have definitely come to adorn the mature fashionista’s wardrobe.


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The Newer, Younger Definition of Bullying

Parents have always had dilemmas about letting their kids out into the world. It is very natural for parents to be concerned about their kids, and to worry about them. If it was possible, I’m sure a lot of parents would have happily stayed with their children 24/7 –just to watch over them while they go to school, while they play in the park, while they sleep over with their friends.

Definition of BullyingAlas, this is not possible, and also not healthy for both parent and child. Letting a child on his own gives him the opportunity to develop as an individual, to bond with other people, and to decide for themselves. But parents will always be concerned, especially when they know that there are prowlers around, just lurking and waiting for an opportunity to strike.

One common concern of parents is bullying. While they can always protect their kids from bodily or mental harm, whenever they are around, they cannot do so when they are away from their kids. And nowadays there is even the more complicated, the more “present” cyberbullying.

Parents need to toe the line when it comes to getting information about their kids. They cannot obviously become stalkers on Facebook just to watch out if there are bullies lying about. They can’t call on these bullies and tells them to back off – that will definitely have some repercussions. The safest way will be to communicate to the kids and to tell them that parents are always just waiting for their cry of help, and that they are constantly loved, no matter what.


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Too Much TV Time for Young Kids is Not Good

With the remarkable advancement of media consumption, is there a proper amount of screen or TV time for children at a young age? I’ve continued to believe that whenever we talk about our children and excessive screen time, Television continues to be the main guilty party. However, we could significantly help to minimize the overall screen time by simply turning off that huge HD screen perched down there in the living room.

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Quite a few child experts feel that young children shouldn’t always be watching television in any respect, much less experience continuing advertisements bombarded on TV screen. Generally there exists a formidable perception between several parents who thought that a specific amount of educative programs can assist to get kids to become ready for nursery school. On the other hand, some parents have become cautious of the strain to give an early academic treadmill to their little ones and as an alternative, they allow kids to watch television because they simply want them to be joyful.

Imagine the amount of time most of us expends just sitting there and how those TV routines are being instilled in their mind at a very young age. No matter what the rationale is, it seems that huge screens as well as vibrant colors are a powerful tool that fascinate young children today as they and parents are generally even more inclined than in the past to go along.

Sad to say, similar to numerous other activities we do with our children in those early, constructive years, we are putting anticipations as well as instilling habits. As much as the television can be involved, it’s a habitude which our young children find extremely hard to kick.

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The Growing Rate of Child Car Deaths and the Fallen Victims of this Mistake

The way you can predict the twang of air conditioners and the jingle sound of the ice cream truck, has become almost the same pattern for a ghastly signal of summer’s arrival: the opening of news reports about a child somewhere, lost to death as a result of being locked inside an unventilated car. If it were the recent past decade, such accident would have been termed freak; at this point, between spring and autumn, one such death on the average takes place in each week that makes up the months between spring and autumn.

asleep in the carSince the beginning of 90s, hyperthermia has been partly responsible for a child’s death – this period was when a new safety regulation about where a child should stay inside a car came into being. The new safety law requires that a child stay at the backseat since the front-seat passenger corner airbags tend to injure kids often. No doubt, the safest place for a kid in a car is the backseat as this has lowered airbag injuries on kids significantly.

But, on the other hand, the law also indirectly made kids not to be easily seen in the car – which is one of the factors referred too often when explaining the substantial rise in death resulting from hyperthermia since the inception of the regulations. The statistics from Kids and Cars – a non-profit consumer-safety advocate shows that since 1998, 37 children on the average have died in this manner. Between January and June 2010, 20 kids died locked inside the car unintentionally by their parents. Of course, the reactions of other parents are quite predictable; they kept on wondering, What kind of parental oversight is that?

Here’s the response from Kids and Cars president; “We should understand that anybody can be a victim of this circumstance”. There are little or no similar traits among parents who have fallen victims of this mistake – some are high class personalities. Some are full-time mothers and some are even fathers. In essence, these parents are enlightened and loving; so, it wouldn’t have been a case of a parent not being mindful of the kid. Perhaps, it could be that our brains are not functioning optimally as we expect.

The Issue
Our daily activities, habits as well as repetitive actions are products of the basal ganglia (an aspect of the human brain responsible for these activities). The basal ganglia enables us pass through the movements of driving to a place without making a conscious effort to take cognizance of each action or turn – thus, the responsibility of voluntary decision making and thought is delegated to the prefrontal cortex (which is more evolved).

On a normal circumstance, these systems work flawlessly together to assign a task. However, when stress steps in, just like an autopilot, the basal ganglia seems to take over. The similar thing among those parents who unintentionally forgot their kids in the car is stress – their daily routines have changed substantially with the stress that accompanies such change.

It could be that they were distracted by an urgent call at the workplace, or that they were not used to dropping off the kid at daycare or taking the kid along to a store. As simple as a diversion on a highway seems, it can influence the prefrontal cortex to yield to the basal ganglia’s auto-control. Disruption in conscious thought occurs immediately; in such circumstance, anyone can forget a child sleeping in the backseat and lock the car for the number of hours he or she would be away from the car.

You can see, that anyone can actually fall victim of locking a child inside a car – which can result to death of a kid.


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